Atlanta's TOP matchmaker Shae Primus, is giving some SHOCKING advice to Black women in the city. Shae, who runs Middleclass Matchmaker which connects middle-class professionals, says that African-American women are in a grave situation.
You see according to Shae, Black women looking for a lifetime mate, need to "open their minds" to dating non-traditional men. Here is how her theory is described, by Rolling Out:
During a discussion on her company message board, Shae Primus shocked members by suggesting women give men who have experimented with same-sex relationships a chance. “It’s unfair that many women have had same-sex experiences, but at the same time, they judge men who have experimented with the same sex. Even if a guy has had one experience, most women will totally write him off as undateable.”
Primus says many of these women have gone through bisexual phases, decided the lifestyle is not for them and yet still expect a man to step up and marry them. As a result of the double standard, she says men who have experienced same-sex relationships or consider themselves bisexual are forced to lie or simply give up dating women. Instead of totally running at the first sign of a same-sex past, Primus suggests women have an open dialogue with a potential partner to determine if he is still in that lifestyle or not before totally writing him off.