Tinsley Mortimer, the youngest housewife on Real Housewives of New York, is reportedly exiting the show after being issued an ultimatum from her now-fiance, Scott Kluth.

"Scott gave her an ultimatum: 'me or the show,' and she chose him," a source told PEOPLE. "He loves the limelight, but hated the negative effect the show had on their relationship. And Tinsley, she's desperate to make the relationship work and was on the outs with the group as it was."

Tinsley and Kluth have been on and off for a while, but it's very clear that Tinsley is eager to marry him, so her walking away for him may not be a huge shock for viewers.

"It was much easier for her to walk away from the friendships she was never going to have to fight for the relationship she always wanted," the source continued.

But according to Radar, Tinsley has not yet left the show.